In case you are not familiar with the cast of characters in my life, let me introduce you to Domy.  She is the housekeeper, former babysitter to my kids.  We are very close.  Sometimes just a little too close.  I can get on her nerves.  She can get on mine.  Domy is profoundly loyal to me and vice versa.  We speak in a language we made up twenty-two years ago.  It’s part Spanglish, part 60’s movie Chinese. (more…)